Being married to a physical medium is a life experience unlike most spouses’, and an ever-evolving spiritual journey. These are my stories and insights—from the beautiful to the terrifying…
The Haunted Apartment
Early one day at about three o’clock in the morning, I woke suddenly with an eerie feeling that I was not alone. The apartment was dead quiet. As I tried to focus my eyes in the darkness, I could see a silhouette of a man sitting at my kitchen table, staring directly at me. He was completely solid, the skin along the side of his face nearest to the window catching the moonlight. His elbow was perched on the tabletop, chin resting on his palm. As my vision sharpened, I could see a glint of moonlight like silver on his eyes…
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Thoughts About Being Married to a Medium
Today, I have been experiencing a lot of introspection about the life of a physical medium—and mine, being married to one. It’s complicated…
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Spirit Orbs
While driving with my husband through a historic coastal town along Puget Sound in western Washington, Ian unexpectedly made a comment which gave me pause: “I feel really strange right now.” Unsure if he was referring to a medical issue which may require urgent attention, I asked for clarification. “It’s not something physical—I just feel like there is something here that I can’t explain. It feels very heavy in this spot. There’s something here…”
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Animal Spirits
Do animals have spirits? YES. All beings with the capacity for empathy and emotion have spirits, including animals…
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“I’m Here” 2.0
My late husband Jeep has been making his presence known on a regular basis by moving a stuffed Christmas bear around in my office. This is a delightful way to let me know he’s dropped by, and a visible message sent to me directly, since I cannot see him like Ian does. If he’s visiting while Ian is here, they talk briefly and Jeep updates Ian on what he’s been up to, as he continues to watch over loved ones in his spiritual body. I am fortunate to be one of those loved, and I feel that love whenever he is here!
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Death’s Gift
The spectre of Death for many is an idea which evokes terror and fear. In reality, Death is natural and organic, an instrument of God to cross over souls into the next realm. Death is just as much a part of human life as living itself.
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Sage of Angels
On numerous occasions, the white sage smudge stick we keep on the altar has begun to spontaneously ignite and burn, filling the room with spiritually healing smoke, which in turn drifts through the rest of the house on its own. This has been my late husband, Jeep, cleansing our home, bodies and spirits, as well as removing any negative attachments which may have followed us home…
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The Suicide Man
GRAPHIC CONTENT WARNING. Last night while I was working on another post for my blog, Ian came into the studio and told me he was uncomfortable in the bedroom where he was playing with our ferret, Bosley. He said there was the spirit of a dead man who suddenly appeared…
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The Cherubim
In the early morning hours of July 30, I was visited by a cherubim in my sleep. In my dream, I was standing at the edge of a massive desert canyon, its depth obscured by darkness as the sheer rock walls descended beyond the range of sight. I was not alone—numerous people were milling about on my side of the chasm, marveling at the natural wonder just meters from our feet. There was chatter and conversation from the groups of individuals nearby, not unlike a visit to a popular tourist spot.
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This collection of stories chronicles some of my experiences being married to a physical medium, and our dealings with the paranormal. Throughout the years, my husband and I have grown spiritually and closer as a result. We are a team in the true sense: he sees and interacts with the dead; I take on the role of discernment, protector, researcher, and man of action—when action is necessary…